Day
19
- Cultivating
Community
Fellowship
is truly developed in a community. A community is a group of people
committed to each other. It takes God's power to develop a loving
Christian community, but he allows our choices to affect whether that
community grows or dies.
If
we want a community, we have to learn to be honest. We must learn that
we have to open up and share some things, and we have to be honest to
our fellow Christians when we see them in trouble. This does not mean we
say what we want when we want, but we must not be afraid to do these
things out of love and concern, and for our growth.
A
community takes humility. We must admit we need help. We all do. We
can't get help until we admit we need it. The more we admit our
imperfections to ourselves and others, the more we can open up to
growing and getting past our problems.
Community
needs courtesy. We are all different. Every one of us has things that
someone else might think is weird or wrong. Some people seem really
difficult for us to be around. We need to understand that we appear that
way to others as well, and learn to overlook things that don't matter.
We
need confidentiality to build a community. Confidentiality simply means
that we don't tell secrets that don't need to be shared. The Bible calls
that gossip, and it is a sin. It tears the church down and hurts people,
and what hurts the church and Christians hurts God directly.
A
community needs to meet frequently. A community can't be built by
meeting once a year. We need to meet often, and be committed to it, so
we get to know each other and grow.
This
isn't going to happen overnight or by accident. A community takes time
and effort, but it will be worth it. A community that fellowships will
bring us closer to each other, closer to God, and help complete God's
purposes in our lives.
Thinking
about my purpose:
Know.
Community requires commitment.
Remember.
"We understand what love is when we realize that Christ gave his
life for us. That means we must give our lives for other
believers." -1John 3.16 (GWT)
Think
about it.
What do I need to do to be a part of a real community that pleases God?